My pregnant friend has nothing for her baby due in feb!?

My friend is 31 weeks pregnant with a little girl-due feb 16th. She has no job because she is so far along. He bf and babys dad just returned from national guard training in oklahoma (we live in ohio) on nov. 1st. he told her before he left on june 5th 08 to go ahead and sign a 1 year lease starting for october 08 in a rental house. She did but now he doesn't want to move in, he would rather stay with his mom a few towns south. He works good paying job on a farm and also has national guard money but he is very reluctant to purchase any thing for the baby or pay the house bills. My friend babysits 4 nights a week and earns a little bit of money. Her mom lives next door so she mostley eats and showers over there. She is on WIC and gets cheese, milk, eggs, juice, ect. and the baby will be on wic formula when she's born. She did have a baby shower but she got mostley things for 3 month old babies and alot of unnesscary things like piggy banks and keepsake hair bows and teddy bears. My other friend and i plan to go to right to life in the morning (which is a place that gives out free maternity and baby clothes) but where can i go to get free or reduced price things for my friend and her expectant baby since her bf won't help out??? she also needs things for her house like dishes and cups and can openers and cleaning products and just basic household necessities and daily living needs. Her mom babysits all day as a job and makes a couple hundred a week and her dad is a roofer which is seasonal work. They have two other little girls to raise and a house of there own to maintain so they help out by letting her eat there and bathe there. So what can i buy and where to help my friend? All she has in the way of clothing for newborns is ten white short sleeve onsies and two long sleeve onsies with pix of erflys on them and three pairs of sock. and 1 bunny sack to use as a snow suit. Please help me help my friend! sorry so long!